As time has passed and I have spent more and more time trading I see my understanding shift quite fundamentally. Good trading is not about money....the job of a trader is not to make money but to trade well, just as the job of a salesman is not to make money but to sell well. This immedieatly means your position size is reduced, your trade is adhered to as per your system and each and every trade is recorded, analysed and learnt from. Satisfaction comes from doing your job well, trading well, not from the profit of the trade. In fact a poorly executed trade that is very profitable should leave you with a sense of dissapointment and frustration whereas a well traded trade that takes a small loss as per your system rules should leave one feeling in control of the job and not at the mercy of the market. Trading is not about making money, no it is about trading well. It is an easy concept to discuss, but after 5 years of trading this is finally a permanent part of my psyche - my trade record for each and every day is my primary focus. Making money is simply a by product of doing your job well.